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2012 in review

December 31, 2012

The stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The new Boeing 787 Dreamliner can carry about 250 passengers. This blog was viewed about 1,800 times in 2012. If it were a Dreamliner, it would take about 7 trips to carry that many people.

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Can ABA help OCD?

January 1, 2012


If you’re setting goals with your child like less frequent hand washing, less worries at bedtime, less finger biting, less need to touch door knobs etc, then ABA can be a tool in your tool box, along with the possible combo of meds, sensory integration, and psychotherapy, to help your child achieve their goals! ABA can help you set baby steps, agree on a reinforcement menu, reevaluate your goals, add or change goals, help your child self evaluate, and help you all learn tools and strategies.
My daughter suffers more from obsessions than compulsions so we work on, ” they’re looking at me” “she’s mad at me” ” her eyes are freaking me out” ” they’re laughing at me” ” I can’t do it” “it’s too hard” ” they’ll say it sucks” etc etc. So we work on overcoming fears, expressing concerns, sharing her feelings, working on anger and frustration, embarrassment and jealousy, and most of all reinforce bravery ( in teeny, tiny increments).

Empower your child now and free them from the prison of OCD!

***ABA in this article is not referring to intensive clinical trials in an office setting. It’s referring to working on goals in the child’s natural environment.

For cautionary information please see-
Donna Williams-Touette’s tics and OCD should not be mistaken for stims.

Withholding information

January 1, 2012

Sometimes life can be too much. When you have Asperger’s syndrome you’re already dealing with sensory issues, social deficits, anxiety, and loss on a daily basis so adding someone else’s problems to the mix can be more than person can handle. We make a point not to lie or fabricate information, but sometimes holding back information like a couple breaking up, a sitter moving away, or a friendship dissolving, is the best for our family. If months go by and my daughter doesn’t even notice that her sitter has gone from weekly to monthly to not at all, or we are hanging with her brother alone instead of with his girlfriend then we’ve saved her from feeling some of the drama of our life so that she can save her energy for the drama of her own. If she asks (which amazingly she often doesn’t) we tell her the facts, if she is sad or excited or anxious, we listen and work her through it and if she’s confused about human behavior then we try to help her understand without her making it about her or because of her. Sometimes, in the life of someone on the spectrum, rejection, on top of failure, on top of isolation, should not be mixed with unnecessary grieving.

The sandwich technique

December 15, 2011

Whether it has to do with teaching new skills, scheduling classes, getting through the school day or meeting new people it’s always best to sandwich the new, unfamiliar, least favorite, or even scary experience between 2 very comfortable, enjoyable, exciting, easily accomplished experiences. Better yet, sandwich your student between 2 people they really like also!
Transitions and challenges will go smoother, learning will increase, and compliance will improve.
Appetizers and dessert!!

We decided to do without periods

December 6, 2011

Delaying your period with birth control pills
If you take birth control pills, you may not need to have a monthly period. A Mayo Clinic expert offers insight on delaying your period with oral contraceptives.

By Mayo Clinic staff

Rosalina Abboud, M.D.
Are you interested in delaying your period, or perhaps stopping your period entirely? It’s possible with birth control pills. Here, Rosalina Abboud, M.D., an obstetrician and gynecologist at Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minn., answers common questions about delaying your period with birth control pills.

How can you use birth control pills to delay or stop your period?

A traditional pack of birth control pills contains 28 pills, but only 21 are active — containing hormones to suppress your fertility. The other seven pills are inactive. The bleeding that occurs during the week you take the inactive pills is withdrawal bleeding, which looks like a period. This is your body’s response to stopping the hormones. If you skip the inactive pills and start a new pack of active pills right away, you won’t have this withdrawal bleeding.

Keep in mind that oral contraceptives only mimic a natural menstrual cycle. The bleeding that occurs while you take the inactive pills isn’t the same as a regular period, nor is the bleeding necessary for health. This is good news if you take birth control pills and want more control over your menstrual cycle, either for personal or medical reasons.

What are the benefits of delaying your period?

Delaying your period can treat or prevent various menstrual symptoms. The option might be worth considering at any age if you have:

Heavy, prolonged, frequent or painful periods
Breast tenderness, bloating or mood swings in the seven to 10 days before your period
Headaches or other menstrual symptoms during the week you take inactive birth control pills
A physical or mental disability that makes it difficult to use sanitary napkins or tampons
Any condition worsened by menstruation, such as endometriosis, anemia, asthma, migraines or epilepsy
In addition, menstrual bleeding is sometimes simply inconvenient. You may want to postpone your period until after an important exam, athletic event, vacation or special occasion, such as your wedding or honeymoon. Delaying your period may also help you save money, since you may reduce your use of hygiene products or pain relievers, as well as save the cost of missed work or doctor visits for menstrual symptoms.

What are the side effects of delaying your period?

You may notice bleeding or spotting between periods (breakthrough bleeding) when you extend the number of days between periods. Breakthrough bleeding typically decreases within a few months, however, as your body adjusts to the new regimen.

Breakthrough bleeding is especially likely if you:

Miss a pill
Start a new medication — such as certain antibiotics — that may interfere with the contraceptive
Become ill with vomiting or diarrhea, which may impair absorption of the medication
In the meantime, continue taking the medication as directed. As long as you take the medication correctly, it’s still working as a contraceptive. If you take the pill irregularly or stop taking the pill for longer than the usual seven-day break, you risk an unplanned pregnancy.

If you routinely delay your period, it may be more difficult to tell if you’re pregnant. If you have morning sickness, breast tenderness or unusual fatigue, take a home pregnancy test or consult your doctor.

Delaying your period with birth control pills

What’s the recommended schedule for delaying your period with traditional birth control pills?

Delaying your period with 28-day birth control pills works best with pills that are monophasic — have the same amount of hormones in every pill. Your doctor might recommend a schedule such as the following:

Take active pills six weeks in a row. You’ll need to use two pill packets. Take the active pills from the first packet, discard the remaining inactive pills, and then take the active pills from the second packet. Don’t take a break between packets.
Take the inactive pills from the second packet. When you’ve taken the active pills from the second packet, you’ll have taken six weeks of active pills. Take the inactive pills from the second packet during week seven. This is when you’ll have your period. To reduce withdrawal symptoms and unscheduled bleeding, your doctor may suggest taking inactive pills for only three or four days rather than the full seven days or replacing the inactive pills with low-dose estrogen pills.
If you don’t have unpredictable bleeding or other significant side effects, you might take the active pills continuously for nine weeks in the next cycle and 12 weeks in the next. Breakthrough bleeding is common until your body becomes adjusted to this schedule. If menstrual-like bleeding occurs after taking 21 days of active pills, stop taking the active pills for three days and then restart them.

If you have persistent unpredictable bleeding or other significant side effects, consult your doctor.

Are any birth control pills specifically designed to lengthen the time between periods?

Yes. In addition to manipulating your period with the way you take 28-day birth control pills, you may opt for extended-cycle birth control pills. For example:

Seasonale. This 91-day oral contraceptive regimen is designed to give you only four periods a year. You take active pills continuously for 84 days — or 12 weeks — followed by one week of inactive pills. Your period occurs during week 13, about once every three months.
Seasonique. As with Seasonale, this 91-day oral contraceptive regimen is designed to give you only four periods a year. You take active pills for 84 days — or 12 weeks — followed by one week of pills containing a very low dose of estrogen. Your period occurs during week 13, about once every three months. Taking low-dose estrogen pills instead of inactive pills during week 13 helps reduce bleeding, bloating and other side effects sometimes associated with a hormone-free interval.
Lybrel. This extended-cycle oral contraceptive — which contains a low dose of both progesterone and estrogen — is designed to be taken continuously for one year. There are no breaks for hormone-free intervals, which means no periods. Breakthrough bleeding is likely for the first few months, however. About half the women who continue taking Lybrel after one year have no bleeding as long as they continue taking the medication.
Is it better to delay your period with 28-day birth control pills or an extended-cycle regimen?

Generally, the choice of birth control pill is up to you and your doctor. Keep in mind that you can reduce withdrawal symptoms and unscheduled bleeding by taking inactive pills for only three or four days rather than the full seven days or by replacing inactive pills with low-dose estrogen pills.

Is it safe for all women to delay menstruation?

If your doctor says it’s OK for you to take birth control pills, it’s probably safe to use oral contraceptives to delay your period — especially if you have problems associated with menstruation. Not all doctors think it’s a good idea to delay menstruation, however. Even those who support the option may not mention it unless you bring up the topic. If you want to try delaying your period, you may have to take the lead. Ask your doctor which option might work best for you.

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Our daily pill list

December 6, 2011



In the morning she takes-

At night she takes-
The pill
Magnesium, calcium, zinc, D
A probiotic
Omega 3
A green foods supplement
And sometimes a stool softener, chewable fiber, vit c, and a multi vit

melatonin worked for us!

August 30, 2009

Melatonin Helps Autistic Children Get To Sleep

Reuters Health – Three milligrams of melatonin at bedtime can effectively treat sleep problems in children with autistic spectrum disorder, fragile X syndrome, or both, according to a study reported in the current issue of the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine.
“Melatonin can be considered a safe and effective pharmacologic treatment in addition to behavior therapies and sleep hygiene practices for the management of sleep problems in children with autistic spectrum disorder and fragile X syndrome,” the study team concludes.
Melatonin is a naturally occurring hormone, derived from the amino acid tryptophan. The hormone is important in regulating circadian rhythms, or the “sleep wake” cycle, and the reproduction cycle in mammals.
Fragile X syndrome is an inherited form of mental impairment resulting from a “fragile,” or broken site, on the X chromosome. The syndrome affects 2 to 5 percent of those with autism spectrum disorder, and symptoms of autism are common in children with fragile X.
Sleep problems are reported in up to 89 percent of children with autism and 77 percent of children with fragile X syndrome, Dr. Beth L. Goodlin-Jones, of the Medical Investigation of Neurodevelopmental Disorders (M.I.N.D.) Institute at the University of California Davis Health System in Sacramento, and colleagues note in their report.
In a 4-week study, 18 children, ranging in age from 2 to 15 years, with autistic spectrum disorder and/or fragile X syndrome received either melatonin (3 milligrams) or placebo each night for 2 weeks. The children then “crossed over” to the other treatment group for 2 weeks.
Data from 12 children who completed the study showed that treatment with melatonin was associated with significant improvements in total night sleep durations, sleep latency times and sleep-onset times.
Specifically, Goodlin-Jones and colleagues report that the average night sleep duration was 21 minutes longer with melatonin than with placebo, the sleep-onset latency was 28 minutes shorter, and the sleep-onset time was 42 minutes earlier.
“Sleep onset problems at the beginning of the night are very troublesome for children and their families,” Goodlin-Jones noted in a prepared statement accompanying the study. “Sometimes children may take one to two hours to fall asleep and often they disrupt the household during this time.”
“The results of this study,” she and her colleagues conclude, “suggest that melatonin is an effective treatment for sleep problems in children with autistic spectrum disorder and fragile X syndrome, a finding that is consistent with previous studies of children with autistic spectrum disorder and developmental disabilities.”
SOURCE: Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine, April 15, 2009.