Adventures in Autism

by Peggy Meador

Belle instruction manual

Likes adventures not surprises
Likes to be greeted with a smile and hello but not stared at
Likes to talk about her favorite movies but not drilled with questions
Likes to sleep in hotels but needs a pile of pillows around her to make a nest
Loves museums but goes quite quickly through them and then wants to shop or rest
Loves dolphins but can find their squealing painful to her ears (will wear her ear covers)
Loves to watch tv but only likes animal planet, fhv, or shows about ghosts
Loves Chicago but might not like the sears tower
Excited about medieval knights but might be disappointed if there isn’t a dragon or if it’s too loud
Loves to eat out but doesn’t like spicey food-pepper, BBQ etc
Loves the natural history museum but has not been to the science museum
Likes space and the body but not electricity (static)
Likes to be invited not bossed
Likes to be communicated with not scolded
Likes to be with others but not if they take too long (at restaurants and museums)
Loves to swim but not if she’s cold or tired
Likes to walk but gets tired fast and easy (and needs to see the destination)
Likes to keep busy but wants choices and to know what’s coming next
Likes a schedule but likes it flexible
Wants to get along but if she’s upset she might say something mean
Wants to tell you what she’s thinking and feeling but can’t always find the words
Wants to be the leader but doesn’t usually get the chance
Wants to talk about sea monsters but wants you to believe they’re true

Loves physical humor (funniest home videos) but doesn’t like to be laughed at if she falls

Likes to shop but likes to have the most money – so if nobody has money she’s fine

Likes lots of attention but only when she’s looking for it

Likes to tease but not be teased

Likes choices but not when she doesn’t like the choices (is disappointed or frustrated)

Wants to have fun, get along, cooperate, but sometimes it doesn’t work out that way
Wants to do everything but might need some down time (rest, tv, gameboy, shopping)

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